cal.setTime(today);
cal.add(Calendar.DATE, dayOffset);
fmtRelDateTime.format(cal, dateTimeStr, fp);
fmtRelDate.format(cal, dateStr, new FieldPosition(0) );
fmtTime.format(cal, timeStr, new FieldPosition(0) );
// check that dateStr is in dateTimeStr
if ( dateTimeStr.toString().indexOf( dateStr.toString() ) < 0 ) {
errln("relative date string not found in datetime format with timeStyle SHORT, dateStyle " +
dateStyle + " for dayOffset " + dayOffset );