myFacade.getConnection().getRoster().setSubscriptionMode(Roster.SubscriptionMode.accept_all);
final JabberFacadeImpl another = new JabberFacadeImpl(myIDEFacade);
createGoodAccount("ddd" + System.currentTimeMillis(), another);
another.addUsers("group", Arrays.asList(me));
new WaitFor(3000) {
@Override
protected boolean condition() {
return another.getConnection().getRoster().getPresence(me) != null;
}
};