ContactHeader contactHeader = headerFactory.createContactHeader(address);
notifyRequest.setHeader(contactHeader);
// notifyRequest.setHeader(routeHeader);
ClientTransaction ct2 = mySipProvider.getNewClientTransaction(notifyRequest);
ContentTypeHeader ct = headerFactory.createContentTypeHeader("message","sipfrag");
ct.setParameter( "version", "2.0" );
notifyRequest.setContent( "SIP/2.0 " + code + ' ' + reason, ct );
// Let the other side know that the tx is pending acceptance
//