if (theApplication.localMonitor().terminateInstance(anInstance) == null)
throw new MonitorException("No response to STOP " + anInstance.displayName());
} else if (command.equals("REFUSE")) {
//we need to expect a response here
if (theApplication.localMonitor().stopInstance(anInstance) == null)
throw new MonitorException("No response to REFUSE " + anInstance.displayName());
} else if (command.equals("ACCEPT")) {
if (theApplication.localMonitor().setAcceptInstance(anInstance) == null)
throw new MonitorException("No response to ACCEPT " + anInstance.displayName());
//we got a response, cancel any force quit task
anInstance.cancelForceQuitTask();