if (value == JOptionPane.YES_OPTION) {
new ConfirmVoiceAction(c, clp.getUserIp(), new VoiceConnexionPacket(me.getUsername(), me.getIp(), clp.getUsername()));
getContactListHash().get(clp.getUsername()).swapChat(true);
} else {
// if no, ignore demands
new CancelVoiceAction(c, clp.getUserIp(), new VoiceConnexionPacket(me.getUsername(), me.getIp(), clp.getUsername()));
getContactListHash().get(clp.getUsername()).swapChat(false);
}
}